Ladki Patane Ka Tarika Aur Rules
Ladki ko impress kaise kare? Dosto kisi ko impress karne se pahle, apne personality ko improve karna behad jaruri hai. Jaise ki acche saaf-suthre kapde pahenna, acche perfume ka use karna, apna hair style maintain karna aur apne body ko maintain karna. Yah sab basic chize hai, jinka apko dhyan rakhna chiaye. Toh chaliye jante hai ladki ko impress kaise kare.
1) Kisi bhi ladki ko impress karne ke liye, apko in baato ka dhyan rakhana cahiye: –
Apka Nature:
1. Hamesha polite or soft bane rahe: Dusre logo ke sath namrata se pais aye. apne se bade or chote ka aadar (respect) kare. Aisa karne se ladki ko yah pata chalega ki, ap ek acche insaan hai. joh har kisi ka khyal rakh sakta hai.(In short ladkiyon ko caring nature wale ladke jayda pasand ate hai).
2. Public me gali – galoz ya fir ladai – jhagra na kare. Aisa kar dene se kharab impression padhta hai. Samaaz me apni izzat bana ke rakhe aur kisi bhi ladki se bura bartaw na kare.(samaaz me acchi izzat or roothne wale ladke ko ladkiyan behad pasand karti hai).
2) Ladki ke sath kaise baat kare:
- Kuch bhi bolne se pehle sochiye: ladkiyon ko anab shanab bolne wale ladke pasand nahi ate hai.
- Us ladki ke samne dusre ladkiyon ki bate na kare, aisa karne se use lagega ki ap usme interested nahi hai.
- Kabhi bhi koi aise baat na bole jisse us ladki ki insult (bejjati) ho, Humesha uski bare me accha bole or uski taarif kare.
- Us ladki ke sath non-veg ya fir ganda Maazak na kare , aisa karne se wah apko gande najro se dekhne lagegi.
- Humesha sakaratmak (positive) bate kare. Aisa karne se apka confidence badhega or ladki ko apse baat kar ke accha feel hoga.
Nagetive bate na kare jaise ki: life me kuch bhi acha nahi hai, me bore ho raha hun, me ksis kam ka nahi hun, mujhe bhot tension hai etc.
3) Ladki ko Kareeb Se Janne Kis kosis kare:
Sahi samay dekh kar us ladki se baat karne ki kosis kare jise ap like karte hai, usi douraan uske bare me kuch accha bole jaise ki:- apka smile bahot accha hai ya fir apki ankhe bahot pyari hai. Paheli baar me hi uske figure ke bare me comment na kare toh hi accha hai.
Us ladki ko special feel karwaye: jise ladki ko ap pasand karte hai uska birthday humesha yaad rakhe, uske liye kuch khas gift laye. Humesha kuch aisa karne ki kosis kare jisse usko accha feel ho. Jaise uske kisi kaam me help karna .
Jis ladki ko ap pasand karte hai, uske bare me jayda se jyada janne ki kosis kare. Use kya pasand hai kya nahi. For example:- hobbies, food, color etc.
4) Ek Accha Dost Banne ki Kosis kare:
Jab ladki apke sath acche se baat karne lage, toh usse uska phone number mang le taki ap kuch personal bate kar sake. For example: – shayriyan bhejna , acche jokes, love quotes aisa karne se wo apke jyada karib ayegi.
Dhyan rakhe starting me us ladki ke sath phone me timepass na kare. Jarurat ke hisab se hi baat kare. jayda timepass karne se ladki ka intrest apse uth jayega. Apne ap ko aisa dikhaye jaise ki ap bhot busy hon.
Dhire dhire ap us ladki ke personal life ke bare me puche jaise uske ghar wale, rishte daar, bhai bahen etc. aisa karne se who apko apna manne lagegi or apke sath apni sari batein share karegi.
5) Dosti ko Pyar Me Kaise Badle:
Jab apko aisa lage ki ladki apse thodha-thodha impress ho gayi hai toh, use kuch samay ke liye avoid karna shuru kar de. Mai janta hun ye sabse mushkil kam hai, lakin ye trika behad kargar hai. Aisa karne se use apki kami mehsus hogi or wo apni dil ki baat apse share karne ke liye tatpr rahegi.
Jab ladki apme jyada interest lene lage toh, ap uske sath apne pyar ka izhar kare use I like you ya fir I love you bole , jaruri nahi ki ladki apko turant han bole, lakin sabra rakhe or uske jawab ka intezar kare. Agar ladki na bhi bole toh uska bura na mane . uske sath acche relation bana ke rakhe sahi samay ane par who apko ha jarur bolegi.
Dosto , ye jaruri nahi ki ap jise pasand karte ho who bhi apko utna hi pasand kare , lakin kosis karte rahe, mera toh yah manna hai ap use pyar karo joh apko pyar kare. Agar ladki ko impress karna hai toh na sunne ki adaat dal lo. kyon ki kosis karne walo ki kabhi haar nahi hoti.
6) Ladki Ko Impress karne ke liye, apni personality ko kaise maintain kare:-
- Apko daily 2 baar brush karna chahiye. 1) subah uth kar. 2) raat ko sone se pehle. Brush karne ke baad, tongue cleaner se apne jeebh ko acche se saaf kar lena chahiye. Aisa karne se apke daant chamak daar banenge, aur apke muh se badhbu bhi nahi ayega. Ap kisi se bhi khul kar baat kar sakte hai aur apka smile bhi ek dum fresh rahega.
- Apko daily do baar nahana chiaye. 1) subah uth kar. 2) shaam ko. Nahate wakt kisi acche brand ka saabun or shampoo ka upyog kare. Aisa karne se ap fresh mehsus karte hai or apke tan se durgandh bhi nahi ayega.
- Daily shave karne ki aadat dale, agar ap daily shave karna pasand nahi karte hai toh, apne daadhi ko trim rakhne ki kosis kare.
- Acche perfume ya fir deodorant ka upyog kare. Aisa kane se kisi bhi ladki par solid impression padega. Kyon ki apke body se ane wali khushboo ladkiyon ko attract karta hai.
- Humesha saaf sutre aur latest fashion wale kapde pehne. Ladkiyon ko fashion me rahne wale ladke jyada pasand ate hai.
